Delicate Questions....

Sometimes I am asked the question about my friends who have transitioned:

"Is she pre-op or post-op?"

I normally try not to answer this question, it is really none of my business.

The other day someone asked me this and I realized something.

I don't know and I don't care if I know.

What does it matter to people, really? Unless you are going to have sex with them or maybe if you are their Doctor it would matter. But to everyone else, every day? ANY day?

Who the heck cares?