Doppler Vision

It's funny how our self image colors how we view the people around us.

Let's say you walk in a grocery store (to pick up things for lunch). As you walk in, you notice several of the men right inside the entrance turn to look at you. A few of the women turn as well.

So, why are they looking?

Option 1:
You are particularly striking today. I mean you look HOT. They are checking you out.

Option 2:
You resemble Herman Munster today. Herman on a bad hair day. They are gawking.

Option 3:
Everyone right inside the door is waiting for the woman right behind you. She will be surprised when the 'What Not to Wear' crew jump out at her. Get out of the way.

Option 4:
Someone is robbing the store and they are wondering if you are with the robber or are telling you to run (without being overt about it).

Option 5:
You accidentally forgot to put on clothes today. I KNEW it was a little breezy! And the car seat was particularly painful after it baked in the sun.

Option 6:
They only see movement.

Seriously, #1 or #2 are what many default to. It depends on how you feel about yourself that day and really, it may be none of the above. The thing is, it is important to live your life and try not to worry about it too much.

You can only hold people accountable for what they say or do - not what they think. Appreciate courtesy when offered. Do not borrow worry.